2 Mind Shifts That Helped Me Get Fatphobes Out Of My Dating Pool

"Why was I easily able to reject someone with right-of-center politics, but couldn't see a person with entrenched fatphobia as a clear no?"

During my teens and twenties I used to lament the dozens of amazing dates I imagined I could be on if I were just thin. I remember scrolling through people who hit everything on my wish list - except…